Well, I am entering day 17 with my new company! Not a lot has changed. I’m still sitting at the same desk, still doing the same job. However, my insurance has changed, along with a new company. Also, my “Labor Category” has changed. I’m still not liking that however, it’s the same pay so I’m not pushing the matter. The Labor Category determines how much of a raise you will be offered in the future, so it’s not just a “pride” thing that I’m talking about. If you are at the top of your Labor Category you might not be offered as much as if you were in the middle (in terms of pay scale) of a Labor Category. Anyway…there isn’t a lot I can do about it at the moment so I’m trying to look at the bright side of things! I am so thankful that I have a job because there are many out there that don’t have a job. There are even some with jobs that don’t have insurance, so I am thankful for that too!
I think any kind of transition in your life is stressful. I know that it has been for me (concerning my job). I’m not sure if my Mom can pick up on that or not. Because I really don’t talk to her a lot about what is going on because she won’t understand and she usually forgets what I tell her anyway.
Speaking of my Mom, she has been giving me fits lately. She has been refusing to take her medicine! One night, I turned my back on her for just a minute and she was throwing her medicine into the trash can! I was so upset with her! How is she going to get better (other than prayer) if she doesn’t take her medicine?!
We have been having Amedisys Home Health Care come out for her Occupational Therapy where they help my Mom do her exercises for her arm. Medicare pays for this and they do a reassessment every 60 days. Well, this time they told me that they could no longer come out because Momma wasn’t making any progress. This is partly because of her cognitive ability and partly because she gets to a certain point with her therapy and she refuses to go any further because of the pain. I know that if she tried to move past the pain that she would eventually have full range of motion in her right arm. But, now I’m not so sure that is possible. And because the Occupational Therapist isn’t coming out they won’t allow the bath aide to come out either. My Mom cannot reach to brush the back of her hair, nor can she reach to wash her hair and back. Thank goodness that we have hired someone to come out three days a week for five hours a day to help with that!
Caring Senior Services has been sending a lady out since right after Momma got home from Millemium Nursing and Rehab Center. However, Momma is now on her third lady! The previous lady that came out refused to be firm with my Mom concerning taking her medicine. She said “I’m not going to manhandle her!” And I really did not want her to manhandle her, I just wanted her to be firm with her and say “You are going to take your medicine”. That is what I do with her and she takes them! So, I would expect the same from a caregiver! Anyway, she ended up quitting. But, thankfully, Caring Senior Services sent another lady out that I think will be much better with my Mom! She has 13 years of experience of working with seniors who have dementia and so she knows how they can become. Thank you, Lord! She also helps with giving her a bath too!
Soon my Mom will be staying with my daughter, Stacey, and then with my sister, Regina. Regina is going to take her to a condo in Destin, Florida! I’m supposed to be meeting Stacey on March 9th so that she can stay with her in Dothan, AL until March 13th. Then Stacey is supposed to drive her to Destin (which is only about an hour’s drive). Then Momma will be staying with Regina and her two daughters, Sophia and Savannah for a week! They will be staying at Club Destin Resort. (For some great pictures of Destin, FL, please click here.) The reason for this is that I will be going to San Marcos, Guatemala for a week, on a mission trip, and needed them to take care of Momma while I am gone.
I am so excited about going to Guatemala!! (If you’d like to see where San Marcos is located, just look to the right hand side of this screen for “Platial” and type in “San Marcos, Guatemala”.) I will be traveling with TIME Ministries. I actually only know two people that are going out of the nine people that are going to be on the team. My friend, Carolyn, is going to be going. We’ve been friends for a long time and she also enjoys going on mission trips.
I also have a friend, Katherine, who just finished finished her college degree with a minor in Spanish. So, she is teaching me a little Spanish before I go on my trip! I’m learning short phrases and the alphabet. I also checked out of the public library, a CD that teaches Spanish. It says a phrase or a word and you repeat it back. That also helps with just hearing the dialect so that when I get there it won’t be too much of a culture shock.
Larry Wright, our leader with TIME Ministries and a retired pastor, has mailed us a packet of things to learn and be prepared before we go. One of the things is to prepare your personal testimony. This is very important so that we can share the Good News with others! I also think that they are going to translate it into Spanish for us to hand out on the mission field. Another thing is to memorize scriptures! This is extremely important because we have to be prepared to give an answer to “life’s questions”.
Let me give you an example. For instance, what if someone says “I’m not good enough to get saved.” You can then show them and tell them that the Bible says in Romans 3:10 that “there is none righteous, no not one”. We are all sinners in need of a Savior. Romans 3:23 says “For ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”. Romans 5:8 “But God commendth his love towards us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us”. Jesus loved us so much that he died on the cross to save us from our sins. John 3:16. All we have to do is ask Jesus into our hearts, Romans 10:9-10, 13 “If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, you WILL be saved! For with the heart man believes unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
There is nothing more fulfilling for me than to help lead someone to Christ! This could not be accomplished without the Holy Spirit leading and guiding. So, please pray for me and for all those that Jesus puts across my path, and for all our team members too! I will try to keep you updated with my trip as the time gets closer.
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